Brenda has been through a lot and recently her baby Elias was born sleeping. 💔 I love her advice and her strength.
Hi I’m Brenda, I was born with a congenital heart disease and in 2012 I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS) my husband Chris and I have been married for 3.5 years and after many doctors appointments we finally got the okay to try to get pregnant. Knowing this will be a high risk pregnancy since day one we decided to try. January 21st, 2019 Chris and I found out we were pregnant. This was one of the happiest days of our lives!! Unfortunately right after we found out the gender of our baby we found out something wasn’t right. With my pregnancy being high risk every time we went to a doctors appointment I would have a sonogram and they noticed the placenta was enlarged. The doctors were hoping this would change with time but it didn’t. June 21st, Elias Bobo was born sleeping, our little baby boy went straight to heaven. Our world turned upside down knowing he wasn’t here with us, Elias was so prefect, his face, his little hands, his little feet.
The advice I would to give to anyone going through this, is to not stay quiet, talk to someone about it. Believe me your friends and family want to hear how your doing and will always be there to talk to you. If you are on the other side waiting to listen, please just listen to someone going through this all we want is for someone to be there and let us talk about our baby.
We miss our baby boy so much especially with the holidays right around the corner. We can’t wait till the day we get to hold him in our arms again 👼🏼